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Orders of Protection for Married and Unmarried Couples in NY

Introduction

In New York State (NYS), orders of protection are legal tools designed to safeguard individuals from harm or harassment. These orders, commonly referred to as restraining orders, are particularly important in cases of domestic violence, where one party seeks protection from their partner or ex-partner. Whether a couple is married or unmarried, the need for protection can arise, and NYS law provides mechanisms to ensure the safety and well-being of victims.


This analysis explores the legal framework for obtaining orders of protection in NYS, highlighting the similarities and differences for married and unmarried couples. We will also examine the different types of orders, the steps to obtaining one, and how they impact issues like custody and living arrangements.


Understanding Orders of Protection in New York State

An order of protection is a court order that instructs an individual to refrain from certain actions that can harm or harass another person. These actions include physical abuse, threats, harassment, stalking, and other forms of abusive behavior. The order can mandate that the abuser:


  • Stay away from the victim’s home, workplace, or school.
  • Refrain from any form of communication, including phone calls, texts, and emails.
  • Cease any acts of violence, intimidation, or harassment.
  • Move out of a shared residence, depending on the specifics of the situation.


Orders of protection are essential for providing immediate relief to victims of abuse and can be requested by anyone who is in a domestic relationship, which includes married, unmarried, or

cohabitating couples, and individuals who have a child together.


Types of Orders of Protection in NYS

In New York, there are two primary types of orders of protection, each serving a different function depending on the urgency of the situation:


2.1 Temporary Order of Protection

A temporary order of protection (TOP) is typically granted at the initial stages of a case to provide immediate protection until a full hearing can be conducted. It is often granted ex party, meaning the abuser (or respondent) does not need to be present for the court to issue the order.


This type of order can include provisions that:

  • Temporarily remove the alleged abuser from the shared home.
  • Establish temporary custody or visitation arrangements if the couple shares children.
  • Prohibit any form of communication between the abuser and the victim.
  • The temporary order is issued for a short period, usually until the next court date, when both parties will be required to appear for a hearing.


2.2 Final Order of Protection

A final order of protection is issued after a full court hearing where both the petitioner (the person seeking protection) and the respondent (the alleged abuser) have the opportunity to present evidence. The final order may last for a longer period, typically between one and five years, depending on the severity of the situation and whether any violations of the temporary order occurred during the court proceedings.


Final orders of protection may:

  • Include long-term restrictions on communication and contact.
  • Award full or limited custody of any shared children to the victim.
  • Establish financial support or maintenance payments if the couple is married.


Orders of Protection for Married Couples

For married couples, orders of protection can be issued through Family Court, Criminal Court, or the Supreme Court (which handles divorce cases). In the context of marriage, orders of protection are often tied to broader legal issues such as divorce, spousal support, and child custody.


3.1 Seeking an Order of Protection in Family Court

Family Court is the most common venue for seeking an order of protection in domestic situations. Married individuals can file a family offense petition, which alleges that a spouse has committed a crime or offense that qualifies for an order of protection. These offenses include:

  • Assault or attempted assault.
  • Menacing or threatening behavior.
  • Harassment or stalking.
  • Emotional or psychological abuse that impacts the victim's well-being.


Once a family offense petition is filed, the court may issue a temporary order of protection to safeguard the victim until a full hearing can be held.


3.2 Seeking an Order of Protection  During Divorce Proceedings 

Married individuals who are in the process of divorcing their spouse can also seek an order of protection through Supreme Court as part of the divorce action. The divorce court has the

authority to issue protective orders to prevent ongoing abuse during the separation and divorce

process.


In these cases, orders of protection may influence issues like spousal support, custody, and exclusive occupancy of the marital home. For example, if domestic violence is a factor in the divorce, the court may order the abuser to vacate the family home or grant temporary custody of the children to the victim.


3.3 Orders of Protection in Criminal Court

In cases where domestic violence escalates into criminal behavior, the victim can seek an order of protection through Criminal Court. This typically occurs after the abuser has been arrested for a criminal offense related to the abuse, such as assault or harassment.


Criminal Court can issue orders of protection as part of bail conditions or as part of the sentencing process if the abuser is convicted of a crime. These orders can impose strict restrictions on the abuser, and any violation of the order can result in criminal penalties, including jail time.


Orders of Protection for Unmarried Couples

Unmarried couples, including those who are dating, cohabitating, or have children together, can also seek orders of protection in New York. The process is largely similar to that for married couples, but there are some key differences in the legal framework and the court systems involved.

4.1 Seeking an Order of Protection in Family Court


Unmarried individuals who are in a domestic relationship, such as cohabitating partners or unmarried parents, can also file for an order of protection in Family Court under the same family offense petition process. Family Court jurisdiction extends to cases where the individuals are:


  • Currently or formerly in an intimate relationship.
  • Living together or have lived together.
  • Parents of a shared child.


Family Court provides protection for unmarried victims without requiring them to pursue a criminal case. This civil option allows for swift action through temporary orders of protection while the court process unfolds.


4.2 Orders of Protection for Unmarried Parents

For unmarried couples with children, orders of protection can also address child custody and visitation rights. If the court finds that one parent has engaged in abusive behavior, it may issue

temporary or permanent orders that limit or prohibit the abusive parent’s access to the child.


In cases where domestic violence poses a risk to the child, the court may:


  • Grant sole custody to the non-abusive parent.
  • Order supervised visitation for the abusive parent to ensure the child's safety.
  • Suspend visitation altogether in extreme cases of abuse.


4.3 Criminal Court for Unmarried Couples

As with married couples, unmarried individuals can seek protection through Criminal Court if the abuse rises to the level of a criminal offense. In situations involving physical violence, harassment, or stalking, the abuser may be charged with a crime, and the court can issue an order of protection as part of the criminal case.


In Criminal Court, orders of protection may be stricter, and any violations can result in more severe consequences, such as criminal contempt charges, fines, or incarceration.

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The Impact of Orders of Protection on Custody and Living Arrangements Orders of protection can have significant implications for both custody and living arrangements for married and unmarried couples alike.


5.1 Child Custody and Visitation

When an order of protection is issued, the court often addresses child custody and visitation to ensure the safety of both the victim and the children. Courts prioritize the best interests of the child and will take domestic violence into account when determining custody arrangements.

  • Sole custody: If the court finds that the abusive parent poses a risk to the child, it may award sole custody to the non-abusive parent.
  • Supervised visitation: If the court believes the child would benefit from maintaining a relationship with the abusive parent but has concerns about safety, it may order supervised visitation, requiring a neutral third party to be present during visits.
  • No visitation: In extreme cases where the abuser poses a significant threat to the child's well-being, the court may prohibit visitation altogether.


5.2 Exclusive Occupancy of the Home


Orders of protection can also grant exclusive occupancy of the family home to the victim. This means that the abuser is legally required to vacate the shared residence, even if they co-own or co-rent the property. The court’s goal is to ensure the victim and children have a safe living environment while the legal process unfolds.


For married couples, this arrangement is often temporary, pending the outcome of a divorce or separation. For unmarried couples, exclusive occupancy may last for the duration of the order of protection or until alternative housing arrangements are made.


Conclusion

Orders of protection in New York State are vital legal tools that provide protection for both married and unmarried couples experiencing domestic violence or abuse. Whether sought in Family Court, Criminal Court, or Supreme Court, these orders offer a way for victims to ensure their safety and the safety of their children.


While the process for obtaining an order of protection is similar for married and unmarried individuals, the legal implications for issues like child custody and living arrangements can vary depending on the relationship. Legal professionals play a key role in guiding individuals through the process of obtaining these orders, ensuring their rights are protected and their safety is prioritized.

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